Has it been months since your last romantic relationship? You haven’t seen your buddies because they’re all with their girlfriends and you spend your days at home wondering if you’ll ever find the ideal girl.
Is this your case?
Wake up friend!
The ideal girl is just a myth, to have a girlfriend is not as hard as you think, I mean it’s not like you need to ask every girl you know if she wants to hang out with you, no!
First you need to “scratch” into the personality of a group of girls in order to choose “the one” (not only women choose).
-Why do you need to “scratch” a little bit?
Imagine this: there’s a group of female friends that you see more or less daily (may be in school or at work)
With that daily but ephemeral contact you’re not gonna get to know them well, you need to go out with them to know which’s the one that makes you feel comfortable, which’s of them laughs a lot with you without you even trying, which one has more odds of having a lasting relationship with you.
Believe me, say “Hi” every day with a kiss on the cheek is not going to lead anywhere. So, take a look at this tips and soon you’ll be walking by the hand of a girl.
Do something for yourself.
If all your friends that have a girlfriend have something in common: they smell good, dress well and have a white smile, what does this tell you?
Women can date very ugly guys, I don’t know why or how but they can, you probably know a pretty girl dating a guy that you just don’t know how he did to get her. But! This doesn’t mean it’s allowed to dress like a beggar, do something for your personal appearance, the chances are greatly increased when you have a good lotion and you bathe daily.
Increase your humoristic skills
This is told by a person that actually looks good, has it helped me to have many girls? No! What has worked a lot more is the fact to make them laugh. Women also are self-conscious with a handsome man, as well as you think a beautiful woman will probably be rude they also think the same! so regardless of how you look you need to demonstrate that you have an attractive personality and to prove that they can have a good time with you, a “you talk me first” attitude will not lead anywhere.
TIP: Watch a lot of Stand-Up comedy, your brain will catch something
When I was single I met around 10 different women thanks to Live Messenger and Facebook, it’s a slow process, but it is understandable, if you open a conversation to an unknown woman you must earn her trust first (and prove you’re not a serial murderer) and then you meet in person! I am currently married to a girl I met in Live Messenger and boy it was difficult because she was very shy at first.
It’s not about the money
I don’t care which car you drive, or how much money you carry in your wallet, my advice is: do not try to impress her with this, it works with rich hunters, but believe me, they are not going to really love you, if you have a Ferrari leave it at home (at least at the beginning), don’t even let her know how much you earn at first, if she’s going to be with you it must be for who you are and how she feels when you’re together.
As a man you have to take the first step (almost always), with my wife it took me years to ask her to be my girlfriend, my excuse: I didn’t want to lose our friendship. Until I was willing to lose her as a friend we started being a couple, I couldn’t wait anymore, we would be together or I had to stop wasting my time, and only then I realized that she was waiting for that moment for a lot of time, if you want things to happen: make them happen! Otherwise you’ll just have friends.
Other advices include things like: do not call her drunk at midnight, if you’re a smoker avoid to smoke in front of her unless she smokes too, do not mention your ex-girlfriends and if you do tell a sad story that you’re trying to forget, do not let her know you’re seeing other girls (in case you are), don’t stare at her lips every time, and stuff like that, but I think that following your common sense and this tips will lead you to a romantic and succesfull relationship with someone that will value you.
Trust me: once they say “Yes” you feel like “Hey… it wasn’t that hard”.
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