A Childless Marriage
A child brings joy to the family. And it is the children that keep the family glued together. But how do you think a couple would survive their relationship when then find out that they could never have their own child?
Not all may have been blessed to have a child. It is either the wife or the husband that has some medical conditions that prevents pregnancy. While this is not anyone’s fault, still, some relationships fall apart because they could not accept their fate. Adoption can be an option but how accepting can one be to allow a child to enter their lives whom they do not know? I feel sorry for couples who took them years and some medical interventions just to be able to create a miracle child but to no avail. Imagine how many mothers, both young and new, have abandoned their children to almost left them dying inside boxes or garbage bins and then there are couples who would sacrifice all they have just to have a child! Life is unfair!
We don’t need to question God why He has given us a cross such as this one. And instead of being unhappy for not being able to have your own child, the only options are: either you adopt or you remain happy to be caring for each other for the rest of your lives.
It may be hard to understand our fate. But we cannot do anything about it but to ACCEPT. Acceptance is the key to have a happy life. No matter what kind of burden or trials we are going through, we need to accept that things happen for a reason. If we are not able to twist things around, then let things be. There might be something bigger waiting for you.