How strong can you hold on with your patience when you are faced with a person that challenges your temper? Do you readily erupt like a volcano? Or do you always try to hold on to your anger at that time and vent it out somewhere else?
If there is one thing that I grew up with, that would be patience. I don’t know how I have become too patient but I feel more at eased having to just calm down and try all my might in thinking that everything will be alright. I am not the kind of person that can be pushed around if I think that the other person could be just taking advantage if me. I also have my own fits. But it takes a long while before my patience spills over.
I know that no matter how I pretend to be okay at time, things will not be the way that I would want it to be. I don’t get to control the thought s of others. And so my way of letting these people to feel guilty is to extend them my generosity and kindness. Hopefully they’d feel ashamed of what they have done to me. That is sweet revenge!
(***I just can’t help myself from sharing this. Incidentally, my dad’s name is Paciente! LOL)