God ordained marriage has a holy union to be shared between married people. The union should be blessed in church by an ordained man or woman of God. The sacrament of marriage should be taken by virgins who have never been married before for this is the way God intended it to be.
But this is a rare scene because people have taken marriage as any other business and they no longer value the marriage institutions. Conflicts happen every now and then and as a couple you should be in a position to handle them. Breakups have never been a solution for disowning marriage.
Here are some tips to help you handle and avoid conflicts in your marriage:
Keep communication open. When your partner does something wrong, the best way to handle that is to sit down and talk. Communication is the key for every marriage. It allows people to share what is in their hearts thus opening dialogue. Never let your marriage lack communication. It is the basic cement for any relationship.
Face the problem ahead. This is another problem that breaks marriages. People don’t like facing the problem that has caused conflict in the marriage. Instead they keep on doing some other things in order to cover for the mistake. For example a man can opt to shower the woman with gifts instead of apologizing.
Forgiveness is another important factor to embrace in marriage. If your partner says he or she is sorry, forgive and move forward. Stop reminding one another on the mistakes that have occurred in the past. This way your marriage will always be a happy one.
Finances are another cause of problems in a marriage. Share your finances openly with your partner and do projects together. After all it is your family that will benefit.
Trust one another and always put God first because this is the way God intended marriage to be.
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